Friday, July 26, 2019

Review: Black Beauty

Black Beauty Black Beauty by Anna Sewell
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is a classic! I loooooooove horses!

I think this may be the oldest book I've ever read geeeeez 1877 lol over 100 years before I was born. And oh my how life was different back then haha see how it's influenced me to talk?

This story is all about the life of Black Beauty; the beautiful shiny black horse with a white star on his forehead and one white hoof. Black Beauty was passed around like a hot potato for most of his life to a multitude of owners; some kind and fairing, some rough and cruel. I felt like it was how Conan the Barbarian was passed around as a slave :P

The theme is mostly about morality and justice. Beauty went from happiness to near death. And the majority of the book you're feeling sorry for the way Black Beauty is being treated by his owners.

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Thursday, July 25, 2019

Review: Harry Potter: The Prequel

Harry Potter: The Prequel Harry Potter: The Prequel by J.K. Rowling
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I loved it because of James Potter and Sirius Black, say no more lol. This was not a book lol it was literally a couple pages long and it wasn't a story, more so a glimpse inside a story that is sadly untold lol I want moaaaaaaaaaaaar Rowling why must you tease us like this

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Wednesday, July 24, 2019

Review: Calypso

Calypso Calypso by David Sedaris
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

I definitely recommend listening to the audiobook because it's narrated by the author. The book is Sedaris chatting about some life experiences and observations he's had. Some theme's I enjoyed were family, relationships, marriage, and getting older.

He writes exactly as he speaks so it's a really easy audiobook to listen to in the car. It's as if you're on the phone with a friend and they're telling you all about some random experience.

It's suppose to be super funny and yea I got a few chuckles here and there but I wouldn't say it's a funny book.

This was not a "book" to me, it was more like a collection of podcasts on the little quirks of life and the way things are and how humans are.

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Monday, July 22, 2019

Review: Moon Called

Moon Called Moon Called by Patricia Briggs
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I have mixed feelings with this book and I really don't know if I want to read the next book in the series or not ughhhhhhhhhh... I was stuck between rating it a 2.5/5 or a 3.5/5 lol which NEVER happens...

I liked this book because it had a very True Blood meets Halfway to the Grave meets Virals type of feel to it. True Blood for all the types of characters; werewolves, vampires, shape shifters, witches. And True Blood because of so much dramaaaaaaa. Halfway to the Grave because of a badass main girl but a good for nothing boring story. And Virals because it felt like a bunch of confused kids trying to solve a mystery while being werewolves.

I think that sums up my review actually; I enjoyed this book because it was similar to True Blood but I didn't enjoy it because it was similar to Halfway to the Grave.

The story was just sooooooooooo dull, but there was so much freakin character development everywhere.

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Wednesday, July 17, 2019

Review: Where the Wild Things Are

Where the Wild Things Are Where the Wild Things Are by Maurice Sendak
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Classic cute children's book. Missing dinner and forced to go to bed early is one of the greatest punishments, yet when you can always...
"...sail through night and day
and in and out of weeks
and almost over a year
to where the wild things are..."
...and you'll be enchanted by the wild things and be claimed king! Then have to come home because you're still hungry :P

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Tuesday, July 16, 2019

Review: Smarter Faster Better: The Secrets of Being Productive in Life and Business

Smarter Faster Better: The Secrets of Being Productive in Life and Business Smarter Faster Better: The Secrets of Being Productive in Life and Business by Charles Duhigg
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Wow. This book was actually amazingly interesting to me. I will forever go through my life with what I have found in this book. A must read!!!

It's similar to Malcolm Gladwell style books where the author makes a point and walks you through studies that prove that point. In this case, this book is all about how improving your productivity levels and becoming smarter thinkers.

My expectations were high because I enjoyed the Power of Habit but at the same time my expectations were skeptical because of the reviews.

Even though I took a bunch of notes, these are only notes on the first half of the book lol One day when I re-read I'll add more to the notes.

Notes:
- Productivity, put simply, is the name we give our attempts to figure out the best uses of our energy, intellect, and time as we try to seize the most meaningful rewards with the least
wasted effort. Itʼs a process of learning how to succeed with less stress and struggle. Itʼs about getting things done without sacrificing everything we care about along the way.
- Krulak began reviewing studies on how to teach selfmotivation, and became particularly intrigued by research, conducted by the Corps years earlier, showing that the most
successful marines were those with a strong “internal locus of control”̶a belief they could influence their destiny through the choices they made.
Locus of control has been a major topic of study within psychology since the 1950s. Researchers have found that people with an internal locus of control tend to praise or blame
themselves for success or failure, rather than assigning responsibility to things outside their influence. A student with a strong internal locus of control, for instance, will attribute good
grades to hard work, rather than natural smarts. A salesman with an internal locus of control will blame a lost sale on his own lack of hustle, rather than bad fortune.
“Internal locus of control has been linked with academic success, higher self-motivation and social maturity, lower incidences of stress and depression, and longer life span,” a
team of psychologists wrote in the journal Problems and Perspectives in Management in 2012. People with an internal locus of control tend to earn more money, have more friends,
stay married longer, and report greater professional success and satisfaction.
In contrast, having an external locus of control - believing that your life is primarily influenced by events outside your control - “is correlated with higher levels of stress, [often]
because an individual perceives the situation as beyond his or her coping abilities,” the team of psychologists wrote.
- It wasn't that wards with strong teams were making more mistakes. Rather, it was that nurses who belonged to strong teams felt more comfortable reporting their mistakes. The data indicated that one particular norm - whether people were punished for missteps - influenced if they were honest after they screwed up.
- As her research continued, Edmondson found a handful of good norms that seemed to be consistently associated with higher productivity. On the best teams, for instance, leaders
encouraged people to speak up; teammates felt like they could expose their vulnerabilities to one another; people said they could suggest ideas without fear of retribution; the culture
discouraged people from making harsh judgments. As Edmondsonʼs list of good norms grew, she began to notice that everything shared a common attribute: They were all behaviors that created a sense of togetherness while also encouraging people to take a chance.
“We call it ʻpsychological safety,ʼ ” she said. Psychological safety is a “shared belief, held by members of a team, that the group is a safe place for taking risks.” It is “a sense of
confidence that the team will not embarrass, reject, or punish someone for speaking up,”
Edmondson wrote in a 1999 paper. “It describes a team climate characterized by interpersonal
trust and mutual respect in which people are comfortable being themselves.”
- The researchers eventually concluded that the good teams had succeeded not because of innate qualities of team members, but because of how they treated one another. Put
differently, the most successful teams had norms that caused everyone to mesh particularly well.
“We find converging evidence of a general collective intelligence factor that explains a groupʼs performance on a wide variety of tasks,” the researchers wrote in their Science
article. “This kind of collective intelligence is a property of the group itself, not just the individuals in it.” It was the norms, not the people, that made teams so smart. The right norms could
raise the collective intelligence of mediocre thinkers. The wrong norms could hobble a group made up of people who, on their own, were all exceptionally bright.
- Reactive thinking is at the core of how we allocate our attention, and in many settings, itʼs a tremendous asset. Athletes, for example, practice certain moves again and again
so that, during a game, they can think reactively and execute plays faster than their opponents can respond. Reactive thinking is how we build habits, and itʼs why to-do lists and
calendar alerts are so helpful: Rather than needing to decide what to do next, we can take advantage of our reactive instincts and automatically proceed. Reactive thinking, in a
sense, outsources the choices and control that, in other settings, create motivation.
But the downside of reactive thinking is that habits and reactions can become so automatic they overpower our judgment. Once our motivation is outsourced, we simply react.
- People who know how to manage their attention and who habitually build robust mental models tend to earn more money and get better grades. Moreover, experiments show
that anyone can learn to habitually construct mental models. By developing a habit of telling ourselves stories about whatʼs going on around us, we learn to sharpen where our attention
goes. These storytelling moments can be as small as trying to envision a coming meeting while driving to work̶forcing yourself to imagine how the meeting will start, what points you
will raise if the boss asks for comments, what objections your coworkers are likely to bring up̶or they can be as big as a nurse telling herself stories about what infants ought to look
like as she walks through a NICU.
- If you want to do a better job of paying attention to what really matters, of not getting
overwhelmed and distracted by the constant flow of emails and conversations and interruptions that are part of every day, of knowing where to focus and what to ignore, get into the habit of telling yourself stories. Narrate your life as itʼs occurring, and then when your boss suddenly asks a question or an urgent note arrives and you have only minutes to reply,
the spotlight inside your head will be ready to shine the right way.
To become genuinely productive, we must take control of our attention; we must build mental models that put us firmly in charge. When youʼre driving to work, force yourself to envision your day. While youʼre sitting in a meeting or at lunch, describe to yourself what youʼre seeing and what it means. Find other people to hear your theories and challenge them. Get in a pattern of forcing yourself to anticipate whatʼs next. If you are a parent, anticipate what your children will say at the dinner table. Then youʼll notice what goes unmentioned or if
thereʼs a stray comment that you should see as a warning sign.
- However, if our urge for closure is too strong, we “freeze” on our goals and yearn to grab that feeling of productivity at the expense of common sense. “Individuals with a high need for
cognitive closure may deny, reinterpret or suppress information inconsistent with the preconceptions on which they are ʻfrozen,ʼ ” the Political Psychology researchers wrote.
When weʼre overly focused on feeling productive, we become blind to details that should give us pause.
It feels good to achieve closure. Sometimes, though, we become unwilling to sacrifice that sensation even when itʼs clear weʼre making a mistake.
- By the 1980s, this system had evolved into a system of socalled SMART goals that every division and manager were expected to describe each quarter. These objectives had to be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and based on a timeline. In other words, they had to be provably within reach and described in a way that suggested a concrete plan.
- Such systems, though useful, can sometimes trigger our need for closure in counterproductive ways. Aims such as SMART goals “can cause [a] person to have tunnel vision, to focus more on expanding effort to get immediate results,” Locke and Latham wrote in 1990. Experiments have shown that people with SMART goals are more likely to seize on the easiest tasks, to become obsessed with finishing projects, and to freeze on priorities once a goal has been set. “You get into this mindset where crossing things off your to-do list becomes more important than asking yourself if youʼre doing the right things,” said Latham.
- Numerous academic studies have examined the impact of stretch goals, and have consistently found that forcing people to commit to ambitious, seemingly out-of-reach objectives can
spark outsized jumps in innovation and productivity.
- Stretch goals “serve as jolting events that disrupt complacency and promote new ways of thinking,” a group of researchers wrote in Academy of Management Review business journal in 2011. “By forcing a substantial elevation in collective aspirations, stretch goals can shift attention to possible new futures and perhaps spark increased energy in the organization. They thus can prompt exploratory learning through experimentation, innovation, broad search, or playfulness.”
There is an important caveat to the power of stretch goals, however. Studies show that if a stretch goal is audacious, it can spark innovation. It can also cause panic and convince
people that success is impossible because the goal is too big. There is a fine line between an ambition that helps people achieve something amazing and one that crushes morale. For
a stretch goal to inspire, it often needs to be paired with something like the SMART system.
- This lesson can extend to even the most mundane aspects of life. Take, for instance, to-do lists. “To-do lists are great if you use them correctly,” Timothy Pychyl, a psychologist at
Carleton University, told me. “But when people say things like ʻI sometimes write down easy items I can cross off right away, because it makes me feel good,ʼ thatʼs exactly the wrong way
to create a to-do list. That signals youʼre using it for mood repair, rather than to become productive.”
The problem with many to-do lists is that when we write down a series of short-term objectives, we are, in effect, allowing our brains to seize on the sense of satisfaction that
each task will deliver. We are encouraging our need for closure and our tendency to freeze on a goal without asking if itʼs the right aim. The result is that we spend hours answering
unimportant emails instead of writing a big, thoughtful memo because it feels so satisfying to clean out our in-box.
- So one solution is writing to-do lists that pair stretch goals and SMART goals. Come up with a menu of your biggest ambitions. Dream big and stretch. Describe the goals that, at
first glance, seem impossible, such as starting a company or running a marathon.
Then choose one aim and start breaking it into short-term, concrete steps. Ask yourself: What realistic progress can you make in the next day, week, month?



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Monday, July 15, 2019

Review: One Summer in Paris

One Summer in Paris One Summer in Paris by Sarah Morgan
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Good book to read if you like Paris and can relate to divorce, alcoholic mothers, dealing with the guilt of death, ex boyfriends, the womanly instinct to protect her child, and the natural need for an organized well planned out life.

What I really liked about this book was the ending - it was something that was probably very difficult for Sarah Morgan to write but she succeeded where most other authors would fail. It was a risky move on her part but I just felt like it was so real and authentic, much more than other novels that are really just a fantasy.

Paris is a create way to escape all the BS lol It seems to be a common theme because I recently read Paris For One and it had a very similar theme - run to Paris to escape your ex and try and find love.

This was an easy summers read, it was good, but it was too long. Could have shaved 25% of it and it would have gotten 4/5 stars.

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Friday, July 12, 2019

Review: How Old Holly Came to Be

How Old Holly Came to Be How Old Holly Came to Be by Patrick Rothfuss
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I read this book, and it was good.
I didn't know it existed, and that was bad.
I sat and read.
I turned page and laughed.
I turned page and laughed.
I turned page and laughed.
I finished the book in 5min, which was neither.
I'm tired so I nap, and it was both.

...You'll understand once you read the book.
Honestly I enjoyed this very short story. It was much more like a poem to me - with the short sentences and rhyming.
It made me laugh on multiple occasions but I'm not sure if the story is meant to be funny lol
This book is seriously different than anything else I've ever read.

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Tuesday, July 9, 2019

Review: Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them

Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them by Newt Scamander
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Short and sweet. Interesting to hear Newt's POV and to hear about all the Beasts and Spirits and Beings and Non Beings lol There's a lot of politics too, Ministry of Magic. I would have liked pictures of each beast!

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Monday, July 8, 2019

Review: A Wolf Called Wander

A Wolf Called Wander A Wolf Called Wander by Rosanne Parry
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Great story! If you love animals and nature you would love this book.

Reminded me a lot of White Fang but better! A Wolf Called Wander and White Fang are both about a wolf being lost from it's original pack and has to survive and protect itself from wild nature and predators. It also reminded me of the book Hatchet because of the children's/survival genre.

I loved how Wander made allies with a raven and how the wolf respects it's kills and shares it with other animals.

I really liked how this story was based off a real story of how we traced a wolf's journey and observed it's behavior.

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Review: American Gods

American Gods American Gods by Neil Gaiman
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I enjoyed reading this book, especially the first half because of the interesting characters. The second half felt like it just dragged and dragged on, but I think I was just losing patience with the story and how it didn't really climax into something epic.

I enjoyed this book because of the main character Shadow, he's a very mysterious interesting guy. I couldn't help picturing Shadow as Lincoln from The 100 lol because I've seen the tv show trailer. You also get to meet other really interesting characters throughout the book too.

I also enjoyed the book because Neil Gaiman is a very good storyteller when it comes to the beginning of developing a story lol not necessarily the climax or ending.

There's many parts of the book where I was thinking to myself okayyyyy so what was the point of all that? And just got bored.

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Review: Reminders of Him

Reminders of Him by Colleen Hoover My rating: 5 of 5 stars View all my reviews